Sorry doesn't have to be the hardest word
him: What did you apologize for? You didn't do anything wrong.If you can't apologize for what happened, can you find it in your heart to acknowledge the pain, frustration, fear, anxiety that was created with a simple apology?
me: Because I hurt her feelings, and for that, I am truly sorry.
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So true. My boyfriend from time to time will ask me why I am sorry about the pain he feels from a medical condition he has. "It's not your fault," he'll say. And I will respond that saying I'm sorry is not necessarily an admission of guilt or blame. I have used this example before: if your best friend's mother dies and you say that you are so sorry, does that imply that you killed her mother? Of course not!
I am bipolar. I control what I do by going to the gym. It may be extreme sometimes, but it's better than putting myself in a situation where I have to say 'sorry.'
Thanks for the great post..Hoping to see more of your great works..Thanks.
I think the sentence "I am sorry" is not for guilt or blame anyone i think its just a formality to control the depression of the patients!
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